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When Friends Disappoint: The Case of Few Partners in Prayer

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It seems that often times, Spirit speaks to me as I’m speaking to others. I’ve decided that such responses are applicable answers to the issues of many more than the one person to whom I’m writing, so I’ve decided to change some key details, so as to share them with you all. This is probably the first in a non-sequential series.

Recently, after a long absence from a social site, I returned to discover a post from a friend that she was disappointed that only a very few of her hundreds of Socialsite Pals had joined her only intermittently to pray for the victims of the disasters in Japan. She declared that she didn’t want to be Pals with such unloving people.

This was my response…

Dearest Kyoko, I can see from your story about not being joined in prayer, that you were very hurt emotionally.  I don’t ever think a person is wrong to express feelings. I noticed though that you used the phrase “call people on the rug”, asserting that it was the right thing to do. To me, this implies judgement. Perhaps you don’t mean it that way. In any case, it is not always wrong to express judgement, but we must do so very cautiously. So, I just want to share a few thoughts, not to correct you, but only to spur your reflection on the matter. I’m well aware I don’t know the details of the situation for any involved. Please don’t feel obligated to explain or feel that you must defend yourself. I’m just going to throw out some scenarios. What doesn’t apply, you can ignore.

You said you were praying hourly. I wonder how many of your Socialsite Pals even knew. The way Socialsite picks “top stories” for my Frontpage, sometimes I forget to click over to “most recent” and miss important stories. Other times, when I’ve been long absent or a lot of people have published, I might miss someone’s story that is hardly an hour old because I get tired of scrolling back. (Granted, this doesn’t happen as much on my current Socialsite account because I’ve limited my Pals but it’s a frequent occurrence on the site I use most!) And perhaps others, like myself, were not even on Socialsite. Now of the ones left, some may have been praying and not publishing. Some may be of the type who have hearts of prayer, offering up prayer for the intentions of those in need or in concert with the intentions of those they care about without remembering all of the details to pray specific words, but nonetheless God hears their prayers just as loudly. Some may have offered fewer prayers but with a deep sincerity that few can manage. Some may have desired to be in hourly prayer with you but could not, perhaps because of exhaustion or obligations to family. We all have different callings. Further, intercession is a spiritual gift. It is not everyone’s gift, and it is no better or worse a gift than any other.

What I’m really trying to say, Kyoko, is that it benefits us and others to believe the best of others unless we have hard evidence to the contrary. Where evidence exists, confrontation is best made directly and privately, allowing the person to make amends rather than potentially shaming them such that they turn further from God. Even when evidence is present, it behooves us to be forgiving, realizing that persons sometimes fall short not because they are uncommitted or uncaring, but because they are ignorant of their own limits or struggle with pride in admitting those limits. Forgiveness is not something to be asked for but something to be silently offered – giving the problem back to the person it belongs to for our own piece of mind. At a point much earlier in my spiritual journey, your admonishment of your Socialsite Pals for not joining you in prayer would have felt like a hard and undeserved slap in the face. I likely would have felt betrayed by someone I trusted to accept me. At the same time, I may have felt wrongfully ashamed for not measuring up to your expectations, the expectations of someone I admired. I don’t know how many, if any, of your Socialsite Pals are young in their spiritual journey (which has nothing to do with how long ago they accepted Jesus the Christ as their Savior), but in my Christian youth, feeling rejected, I would have probably quietly disconnected from someone who could help me grow and then drifted farther away from the embracing love of my Lord.

As I said, I don’t know the specific circumstances regarding your request to your Pals. I also know nothing of their replies, their reasons for not joining you. I merely wanted to offer you a perspective you may not have had the opportunity to discover. God bless you. You are a beautiful woman, inside and out. I hope we continue to have the opportunity to grow together by Spirit’s guidance.

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Go Now: The 1st Disciples & Our Call to Proclaim

Calling of Andrew and Peter

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The Gospel of Mark, Chapter 1 includes the recounting of the story of Peter, Andrew, James and John’s call to discipleship. These guys were wealthy fishermen. This is after Jesus has been baptized by John, of course. Don’t you imagine word about what happened had spread? This is also after Jesus had been tempted by the devil and prevailed. Still, though, would you just drop everything to follow a stranger? Jesus must have oozed of conviction and truth! We know the Good News, the Truth, and have all the more reason to be confident in Jesus the Christ. It is rooted in that confidence, that we must go now to proclaim.

I went on to read today from Paul’s really long letter to the Romans, Chapter 10.  Paul reminds us that Christ is the end of the law. Christ is the new covenant. Looking to be rewarded for righteousness that reflects only our ability to follow rules will be met with failure. Paul tells the Romans, “Hey, if you are willing to risk identifying yourself as a believer, if you really believe deep down, then whatever harm or hardship comes to you here on earth will be worth your great reward in heaven.” This doesn’t mean we say it, then do nothing. Paul continues, saying, “Christ is the good news people don’t even know to look for. If people don’t hear the truth, how can they believe it? Get out there and tell them.”

Questions for Contemplation
1) With whom have you shared the Good News?
2) What made you first really believe?
3) Where are you in your journey of faith?
4) When have you had opportunity to share the Good News and haven’t?
5) Why is it difficult for you personally to share the Good News?
6) How have you seen people share their faith and the Good News without being “preachy”?

Prayer of Devotion
Lord, Answer to Our Every Prayer,
You come to us with the gift of Your mercy and love
and ask only that we share.
Strengthen our faith that we hold no self-condemnation or anxiety.
Let our rituals be tools rather than distractions.
Embolden us with courage and Christ-like charisma to proclaim Your Truth.
Believing in the power of Your name, we ask You Jesus the Christ,
to grant these requests.
As it is Your will, so let it be.

Let Go And Be Free – lyrics

Lords Prayer in Aramaic(Syriac)

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No one knows how grateful I am or how much I want to be

humble and obedient enough to let go and be free.

Crying tears of joy each day, though sorrow you may still see,

I bow before the Lord, My God, in awe on bended knee.

In prayer or ritual, I want to be sincere – not shouting, “Look at me,”

but seeking true serenity in simple community.

No one knows how grateful I am or how much I want to be

humble and obedient enough to let go and be free.

We are unique but raise our voices to sing harmoniously

praises and prayers unified yet distinct in their plea –

How Lord can I be more like you and feel your presence more in me?

How Lord do I find my way and whom I am to be?

No one knows how grateful I am or how much I want to be

humble and obedient enough to let go and be free.

The right path may not be the trail that climbs the highest peek

but it is the one on which you will most readily receive

the love and grace of the Lord who so frequently reaches out to meet

each of us where we are if we’ll trust a Power we cannot see.

No one knows how grateful I am or how much I want to be

humble and obedient enough to let go and be free.

When my life is shrouded in darkness and I

hold on, hoping one day to be free

I need only loosen my grip and discover how

tightly, Lord, You hold fast to me.